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  • Hello There!

    I'm Sarajane, a blogger, photographer and life consultant based out of Asheville, NC.

    On this blog you can find stories from my experience, my thoughts on the world, tips for making the most out of life and on occasion photos of remarkable people or my travels.

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    with love,

On Confidence and Beauty. ( The Evolution Series )

I’ve hit this strange place in my life where I no longer feel like the young cute girl at the party. My wisdom has show me too much and the painted on lines of make-up no longer offer me the same false protection that they once did.

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Laura Friedel Matney - June 22, 2016 - 4:47 pm

Very powerful piece!

Celeste Eizaguirre - June 22, 2016 - 5:02 pm

What a beautiful post!

Elizabeth Nord - June 22, 2016 - 5:03 pm

Beautiful and true words! <3 Thank you for sharing!

Diana Gordon - June 22, 2016 - 5:04 pm

Very true!

On People Watching.

If I stare at anyone long enough I swear I could fall in love with them. I love the way people look when they don’t realize they’re being watched. Innocent and vulnerable like they’ve never known heartache.

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Elisa Schulman - June 7, 2016 - 5:08 pm

Ahh, another wonderful writing from you! Watching strangers is awesome. I wonder about the people I see just as you do. The part of this story I identify with the best, is when you say, ” know there is someone out there who wants to see you live the best life you can. It just gives me a good feeling inside,Sara, because I know it’s true. This is exactly what I am working on as I write this: living the best life I can! I also have a knowing inside that someone is rooting for me!

On Self-Doubt & Partnership.

I took a hiatus from the blog for a few weeks while I traveled. Thanks for understanding the need for rest. This is probably the quietest my blog has ever been. I’m looking forward to continuing the Evolution Series & you may see some more things pop up as time goes on! Thanks for being here.


I’m not a stranger to duality. How a person can be both kind and selfish. How we all share lightness and darkness to our beings neither of which detract or add to your worth, they simply are. I get questioned about my confidence a lot, complimented on the way I hold myself and how I seem to know my worth from a deep place. You know what, it’s true. I’ve put in years of work to believe in my worth, to truly understand my value. However, there are days where I feel meaningless, lack-luster. Lately, those have been more frequent.


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Julie Wunder - May 17, 2016 - 11:32 am

Such a beautiful post. I think all women suffer from these feelings at times…. sometimes more than others. It’s finding that balance to move past them that is critical! You clearly excell at this. Congrats on your engagement!!!! :-)

On Living Alone. (The Evolution Series: Week 14)

I’ve been telling people that this is the only time that I’ve lived alone. I guess it technically is, other than a brief odd period of time that I lived in someone’s basement for a summer. I was working at a home for developmentally disabled adults in Winston-Salem, NC and a truly lovely older couple opened up their basement apartment to me for the summer. Despite a seemingly sweet deal, I spent most of my time at work or traveling to see friends. I just didn’t feel as at home with myself then.

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Elisa Schulman - April 24, 2016 - 1:49 pm

Living alone has it’s ups and downs for sure. I feel you on the part of getting energy from other people. I have lived alone for many years now and enjoyed myself immensely. Now things have changed, as they always do and I am in transition of staying with a friend for a while. I cget inspiration from this friend and I am looking forward to moving forward. I hear this is the year for change! And goney, I’m ready. Sounds like you are. Wishing you all the best on your move!!

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